Voting! Our duty more than our right

The elections are near. India will soon vote. I urge all of you who are eligible to vote. The perception of politics for the common man is usually the same. ‘Politics is a mire’ . ‘I’ve no interest in politics’. ‘I hate politics and politicians’. ‘Politics is filthy’. ‘India has the most corrupt politicians’.

While this attitude could be based on loss of faith in the Government; it is wrong nevertheless. We should take a stand now. We should be more aware of our rights and our duties as citizens of this great country. Shirking away from politics is not the answer. In fact our indifference and incompetence as voters has encouraged bad governments to thrive.

It is time to be proactive and take control of our destinies; as those we vote for, do control our destiny in a way.

We have no right to complain about our local corporators, bad infrastructure, poor connectivity or lack of basic health care if we do not cast our vote. Rather than balking at the thought of politics we should learn more about our electorate; the way our local government works; learn about the people we vote for. Politics is for us whether we like it or not. Shed your ignorance and learn about your local political hierarchy. It’s a shame if you do not know who are why you are voting for.

We should vote for the party which instills the most confidence. We should vote for a leader who could take well informed decisions focused on foir basic tenets of living. These are good food and water; proper housing and infrastructure; affordable education and excellent health care at the grassroots. Vote for the party who believe in these tenets

It doesn’t matter if the political parties promise you the moon. Don’t look at the short term gains. Don’t sell your vote for money. Don’t believe in false propaganda.

If you want your country to become a superpower; if you want to dwell in a country where you feel secure and truly free, then do your duty nd exercise your right… vote…wisely!

The Forgotten Teacher

Gathering up her books
On a hot and sultry day,
She trundled up the path
Along her own weary way.
Lost in thoughts of the children
Whom she so earnestly taught,
And the tears and the happiness
That all these memories brought.
The students were her flowers
She would so lovingly tend,
And once they were in full bloom
Her journey with them would end.
Her old shoulders were stooped
By sorrows that weighed a ton,
What else with a drunkard husband
And a wastrel of a son.
As she strode on oblivious
To the heat of the scorching sun,
She felt lonely, cold and miserable
And utterly forgotten.
Bent down and squinty eyed
While unlocking her door,
Her eyes fell to an envelope
And an orchid on the floor.
She wept as she read the letter
And sat down by the stove
On the cover were the words
‘To my teacher with love’
Her heart was filled with joy
Gone was the look forlorn,
Someone had remembered her
That’s what drove her on.
– K. S. Gokral

Reclaiming your life!

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As a physician I see many of my patients leading a dreary existence. They sleep at the same late hours, get up early, eat the same food, do the same work, do not exercise and hence, have the same illnesses. They get me their reports with their high cholesterol, diabetes, low vitamins and then they expect me to cure them in a single visit.

I dread such patients because they are so ignorant of their own problems. They know that the solution to all their ills would be to just live their lives in the right way. I give them a single motivational line: “If you do the same things, expect the same results…. Change the way you do things so that your results will change for the better”. Easier said than done. Many find that it is extremely difficult to put this advice into action.

You know what is the bottom line? Unless a person lifts himself up, unless he shakes himself up, unless he sees the light, he cannot be helped.

So how to get out of this rut? Here are some pointers for that.

Just go ahead and take the first step.

Do not wait for the new year to make resolutions. Decide on one thing that you tend to do wrong and then set about doing it right. Every great journey has begun with the first step. So if you feel that you are not getting enough sleep then try finishing off your dinner earlier than usual. Switch off your wifi and mobile networks at a certain time. Make it a point that you go to bed a couple of hours earlier.

Now do this consistently and with great discipline

It takes about three weeks for a new habit to form; though it may take much longer than that. Some studies say that it takes about sixty six days to form a new habit. So be prepared to slog it on. Will yourself that “No matter what, I will sleep for 8 hours a day”. And enjoy the amazing difference.

Don’t try to change everything at once

It would be tempting to do so; but trying to overhaul your life all at once usually will fail. Identify the most important aspect of your life which you think you could make better and zoom in on it. Write down the changes you want to see in yourself and give yourself a rough time frame to implement your thoughts into action…… And stick to it.

Get away from negative influences

At times you can sense that someone you know is trying to bog you down. This person may deride you or shoot down your ideas. It could be a co-worker or a family member who doesn’t believe you can make it on your own. We need to shut out these people from our thought processes. Instead of fighting or arguing with them make a steadfast resolve to yourself to better yourself.

Declutter your home and workspace

A stuffy, overcrowded workplace could take away your will to work. Throw out the useless things from your desk and cupboards. Allow more light and air in your home and workspace. The place you spend most of your day in should bring you positivity and enthusiasm. It should give you peace and should be a joy to be in. Make it to be as you imagined it when you started out. Try to finish your tasks and empty the incoming trays ads soon as you can.

Stop whining and blaming

It is rightly said by a wise person that ‘excuses are lies that you tell yourself’. Stop blaming your failures or tardiness on someone else. The more you complain and whine, the less work you’ll get done and more people will dislike you. Stop complaining that all your hidden potential was wasted because of such and such a thing or person. if you have the potential then take every opportunity to show it.

Take care of your health

Take time for a walk or a run on a regular basis. Sleep well. Eat right from today. You know the damage of oil and starch and smoking and alcohol but when are you going to stop it? Tomorrow? No!…the change has to come consciously… from today. Take your medication regularly. Watch what you eat. Make exercising a daily booster habit. After all everything else in your life is secondary to your own health and well being.

Allocate time for life

Allen Saunders in the Reader’s digest in 1957 very famously said, “Life is what happens to you when you are busy making other plans”. People have started thinking of their careers as their life purpose. I like to remind them that their career is just about twenty percent of their life. There are so many other aspects than just our careers. What about your hobbies, your social circle, your family, your responsibility to society? Go ahead and learn an instrument; meet your parents once a week at least; meet your friends often; volunteer for a good cause; help someone in funding their education; teach children life skills. There is so much more to life than your office and work. Finally if your work has stopped exciting you, maybe it’s time to move on.

These are some of the things that you should start doing if your life is stuck in a rut. You have to raise the bar if you want to reclaim it. After all it’s your life and you can only live it once.

A Debt of Gratitude

As I left my father’s hand
And stood upon the stairs
Feeling alone, a little boy
My tears flowing in despair.
I looked in awe at the strange place
A stone building, with cold floors
Blackboards and wooden benches
Huge windows and big doors.
The school looked a forbidding place
For a boy who didn’t know much
I’d only known the warmth of my home
And my parents’ loving touch.
Amidst this tearful loneliness
Appeared a ray of hope,
A warm and tender voice
Gently, to me it spoke.
“Hello my dear little child;
Welcome to school” it said
Those soft words and kind eyes
Made me lose my dread.
She gathered me in her arms
And carried me inside
She soon taught me the alphabet
And poems to recite.
She made me enjoy my studies
And then she watched me play
She held my hand and guided me
As I fumbled along the way.
My teacher taught me manners
And how to speak with everyone
She moulded me from a shabby boy
Into a gentleman.
She told me about numbers
And the magic of creation
Her stories about our history
Stirred my imagination.
I’ve since reached farther shores
But I say without hesitation
The journey of my life was a good one
Because of a good education
Oh teacher, I’m so thankful
For the first day you held my hand
I’ll be ever in your debt
For you’ve made me what I am.
– KS Gokral

 

Lifestyle Disorders: How to cope?

Not so long ago the world was not industrialised. In the last three hundred years our planet has leapt from being a mammoth village to a civilised world. We found more and more ways to make our work easy, automating tasks, making machines that made our job easier. In doing so we increased productivity; we increased our income and we decreased our labour. Strangely this did not have as good an impact on our health. In fact we found that our health, especially, cardiac health deteriorated. Now, industrialisation was not all bad. We conquered the bane of many infectious diseases and invented vaccines, discovered antibiotics and new surgical techniques. It also increased our life expectancy from 45 in the 1900s to about 75 and above today. Although the deaths occurring due to contagious diseases fell, we found a growth in the number of heart related diseases and strokes. Lifestyle ailments is probably the price we paid for industrialisation.
Why did this happen? Where did we go wrong?
The industrial revolution changed the way we went about our lives. In the past, people used to grow their own food in their fields, rear their own livestock and cook their own meals. Their lifestyle included hard physical labour but enjoyed fresh air, sunlight and fresh water, since pollution from industries hadn’t yet spoilt the environment. People then, used to work from dawn to dusk and slept soon after sunset. They led a simple life although not so comfortable as today’s.
Now, we work in offices, we often consume fast food and live in a controlled environment with air conditioners, consume bottled water, carbonated drinks, hardly move about in the sun and work without any time constraint. Sleep has become a luxury. Sadly man has gone totally out of sync with nature. We have forgotten that the sun, air and water is not only for plants but nurtures people as well.
This has taken a toll on our bodies which were adapted to an outdoor life. Due to lack of exercise our metabolism decreased while our food choices became varied and richer. Consumption of red meat, oil and carbohydrates increased. Use of recreational substances like alcohol, tobacco and opium became fashionable.
Today lifestyle has not only changed our health but is also responsible for changing the way people think. Urbanisation has created a great disparity between the rich and the poor due to variability of income. This has created angst and hatred in the minds of people of certain countries and communities. Fed by religious zealots, clashing of ideologies has given rise to extremism.
Coming back to the effects of urban lifestyle on our body, we find a number of diseases prevalent for example; Hypertension, depression, obesity, certain cancers, asthma, type 2 diabetes mellitus, sleep disorders, developmental disorders, Alzheimer’s disease, anorexia, addictions and social dysfunction. All of these are attributable to our deteriorating lifestyle. Here it is also important to point out that our increasing life expectancy has also led to more number of degenerative diseases like cancer and Alzheimer’s since these illnesses require a number of years to cause their effects.
Indians began to ape Western countries in their diet and lifestyle in the late 50s. This led to a rise in lifestyle related disorders in India as well. We suffered more than the Westerners due to our ethnicity. Asians, especially South East Asians have genetically been programmed to store fat. The frequent famines and droughts in our evolutionary history caused our bodies to evolve to endure difficult times by storing food much like a camel stores water in its hump. Western diet coupled with our genetic predisposition makes us store fat efficiently on our abdomen, scapula and arms. This has given rise to large number of our population falling prey to lifestyle diseases. India now leads the world in diabetes and has a high number of people with cardiac disorders. This is more prominent in the constantly growing urban belt. So as we become more affluent we are more prone to lifestyle disorders.
How does an unhealthy lifestyle cause disorders?
For this we need to understand a basic evolutionary principle, that of our nervous system. We have an automatic nervous system which does most of its tasks by itself… throughout the day. So we unconsciously breathe, digest food and have reflex actions. When we are confronted with a situation where there is danger to life or in olden times when we used to hunt animals for food, our nervous system helps us.
One part of the automatic or autonomous nervous system called the sympathetic nervous system increases our heart rate, increases blood supply to our muscles and increases blood pressure. This results in the classical flight or fight response. We can fight our enemies or swiftly run away from them. This response is responsible for the work we do, handling stress and for our survival. The main hormones responsible for this are adrenaline and nor adrenaline. Remember hearing about the ‘adrenaline surge’? This SYMPATHETIC nervous system feeds on anxiety, stress, acute exertion or danger.
So what happens when the danger passes or we have come out of a stressful situation? The effects of sympathetic system are no longer needed. Our blood pressure and heart rate returns to normal. The blood supply to our muscles decreases. We become more relaxed and can now rest. This is brought about by the other part of the automatic system called as the parasympathetic nervous system. The main hormone responsible for this is acetylcholine. The PARASYMPATHETIC system feeds on sleep, meditation, yoga, calming exercise and moderate physical exercise. Without the stimulation of the parasympathetic system we would be unable to sleep or rest.

If these two systems do not balance each other, the sympathetic effects of high blood pressure and heart ailments rise. This leads to imbalances of metabolism and paves the way for many other lifestyle related disorders such as diabetes, cancers, obesity et al. Hence a person living a stressful lifestyle with less sleep, irregular and incomplete diet and most importantly without adequate exercise would be prone to lifestyle disorders.Lifestyle disorders, though the most common disorders amongst us, can be easily prevented. The only pre requisite being the will to change your life for the better.

Do you have the WILL?

In the previous part we discussed the mechanism behind lifestyle disorders. There is an imbalance between the Parasympathetic and the Sympathetic nervous systems which causes disease.
In this part we will learn how to go about how to prevent lifestyle diseases.
As I had mentioned before, one needs the WILL to change. When we all know our lifestyle is faulty shouldn’t we change it. It’s easy to give excuses about lack of time, tight schedules etc. But don’t you think that if left till late YOU will be the sufferer. Millions of people end up with hypertension, diabetes, obesity and cancer because they just refuse to change their habits.
So what should be the ideal lifestyle?
Everybody gets 24 hours in a day. It’s how you plan your day and stick to your schedule which gives you a disciplined lifestyle.
1. Make a schedule which incorporates good sleep of about 6 to 7 hours at least; 30 to 40 minutes of exercise time and adequate time to eat food. This is TIME ALLOCATION.
2. Let your career or your profession be a part of your life and not your entire life. It may take a lot of your time no doubt, but it should leave adequate time for yourself and your family in the day. If you can’t then probably it’s time for a new job or a new schedule.
3. Stick to your schedule
4. Change your attitude from being a worrisome person to one who takes things in his stride. Begin by accepting your work and the related stress. Smile when you wake up and think about the positives of the day before. Do not focus on the negatives.
5. Plan surprise outings with your friends or spouse. Don’t wait till weekends or that week once a year when you travel with family.
6. Feel good about yourself and the world in general. Complaining people are seldom happy.
Combating ill health through diet
To achieve optimum health we tend to listen to advice from all and sundry. Unqualified advice may lead to confusion and illness. So what should people really have in their diet?
It would be wise to include the following in your meals:
1. Nuts: Pistas, almonds or walnuts. Not more than 6 to 8 daily of each. Preferably early morning before breakfast. Go easy on the cashew nuts and groundnuts though.
2. Fruits: At least 2 medium sized seasonal fruits like apple or orange daily. Preferably to be had between meals.
3. Vegetables: They should be cooked minimally. At least one green veg and one sprout. Also have salad.
4. Fish oil: either 200 gm fish weekly or cos liver oil capsules twice daily.
5. Olive oil: use extra virgin olive oil 2 tsp per person per day. Preferably as a dressing over salads. Don’t use for cooking.
Some tips for having meals:
1. Keep 2 – 3 hours between your dinner and bedtime.
2. Restrict use of salt to less than 1 tsp per person per day.
3. Drink at least 8 to 10 glasses of water throughout the day. Never have large quantities of water at a time. Generally sedentary workers should not have more than 2.5 litres of water daily. Don’t have water immediately after meals. Wait for at least 30 minutes after meals.
4. Eat a good amount of natural probiotics like curd which adds beneficial bacteria that ferment your food well.
Combating disease through exercise
Indians require more exercise than Westerners. This is because during evolution we became more efficient at storing fat. The Indian subcontinent was constantly facing droughts and famines. Hence we developed the ahold to store fat especially on our abdomen, arms, thighs and scapular regions. These are some tips about exercise
Exercise daily for 1 hour…. Break it up as follows:
40 minutes cardio
10 minutes weights
10 minutes office exercise (stretching and walking in the office)
While doing cardio maintain your pulse at about 80% of your maximum heat rate (approx. 120 bpm)
Always warm up before exercise and do stretches after exercise.
Stay any exercise routine gradually.
Daily variations in speed and intensity of exercise are recommended and are most useful.
Drink water or light diet 30 min prior to exercise. Have a warm shower after exercise. Never cold water bath.
Stick to your routine despite all odds.
Get a massage once a month.
Don’t exercise with sprained muscles. Give them adequate rest.
Use fitness trackers like pedometers or fitness bands which motivate you to exercise.
Rest well
Sleep well every night at least for 6 to 7 hours. Avoid use of bright light in the house from evening. This does not allow your skin to produce the natural sleep hormone called melatonin which helps us sleep. Avoid using mobiles and watching TV after a self imposed cut off time say 9 pm.
Spend time with your family and friends and have conversations with your children daily.
Realise that life is about living and not slogging to no end. Fulfil your inner needs of creativity, have a passion, a hobby or learn an art. This will not only keep you free from disease but also make you an evolved, peaceful and a happy person.
Have a nice day and a health life!

Smartphone tips for daily use

We all use our smartphones for practically everything nowadays. Surfing the net, communication, social media, time management, news, photos and the list just goes on. Does all of this just go overboard at times? Do you feel like a slave to your phone? But wasn’t the smartphone supposed to make life easier? So why are we bogged down by them? Although phones have gotten smarter, we have started getting dumber.
Actually, the way we are using our phones, is completely wrong. We spend far too much time on games and social media than we should. In the last few years we have conditioned ourselves to respond to every whine our phone makes. This conditioning has gone to ridiculous lengths. The moment we wake up, our hand searches for the phone. First we switch off the alarm and then automatically we start scanning our social media. Then we check our mails and messages and even start replying to them. All this, before even getting out of bed.
If you feel that doing this is making you more productive, then stop fooling yourself. Learn to use your phone wisely and don’t let it dictate your time. Here are some tips to use a smartphone which will help you maintain your sanity and get more productive.
TIP 1
Allow yourself a good thirty minutes before you touch your phone in the morning. It is estimated that the average smartphone wielding person touches his or her phone an estimated two thousand five hundred times a day; with the top 10 percent users touch their phones upto five thousand times a day! Smartphones work best when used as life accessories. Don’t use them as an extension of your body.
TIP 2
Use the Silent / Vibrate mode at office, restaurants, cinema halls, seminars or meetings. This option is usually in the notification bar or can be easily pulled down. Some phones have a switch on the side to shift to silent mode. Use it.
TIP 3
Use the “Do Not Disturb” mode (usually a crescent moon icon on iPhones or a Prohibition sign on other phones) when you enjoy an afternoon siesta or are going to bed at night. This completely mutes all calls and notifications. You can configure notifications which you want to receive though.
TIP 4
Set a time for checking your mails and social media messages. Maybe 15 minutes every three hours during the daytime. It is not a sin if you don’t respond to your colleagues or friends immediately. Let them know that you check your phone very infrequently so they won’t expect a quick response all the time. When you know that your next break is three hours away there’s less pressure on you to check your phone incessantly. Do not expect your children to leave their phones when you don’t do so yourself.
TIP 5
Delete unwanted apps once in a while. I frequently delete unused apps, which I felt to be good at the time of installing. They just eat up space and your battery life. Apps like Ringtones and wallpapers and silly games should be not installed at all. Keep a watch on the apps your children install and advise them accordingly. (Just don’t get too paranoid about it!)
TIP 6
Install apps that increase productivity. These apps help to actually manage your time more effectively. They help you chalk out your routines; schedule meetings; video conferencing; remind you to drink water and exercise; help you in creative work; monitor your screen time; record your sleep quality; tell you to be more active and a lot more. I will soon write about the best productive apps I use.
TIP 7
Do not use your smartphone at the dinner table. If you’re meeting with family or friends, then make it a rule to switch off all cell phones during your time together. These times may not return, so learn to savour those moments.
TIP 8
Learn to use online banking and payments. Nowadays it is impossible to ignore online transactions. Even my vegetable vendor accepts payment through PayTM or Google Pay. So learn the correct way of transacting online. It will save your lot of time and you won’t need to carry large amounts of cash. You won’t need to remember various PIN numbers or passwords.
TIP 9
Dim the screen. Use the automatic brightness controls and save your eyes. Use the phone at an arm’s length. If you’re watching a movie then occasionally gaze outside the window or at a far object to rest your eye muscles. Try not to continuously look at the screen. Blue light filters are inbuilt in most phones and can be configured to work at specific times. Use them.
TIP 10
Do not sleep near your smartphone. Sleep at least 4 to 5 feet away from your phone. DO not keep the phone on charging at night. Overcharging is known to damage the battery faster. There is a lot of cause for concern about radiation emitted by cell phones especially when you’re roaming in a different city with a poor network connection. If possible also switch off your wifi router before sleeping.
These were just some of the tips to get out of the smartphone slavery. There could be lots more. I’m waiting to hear from you to write more such articles. Please share your feedback on this article at dr.gokral@gmail.com